Sunday, April 16, 2023

Where has the time gone Part 2

 I just posted a 2+ year blog. Since then I have survived the Covid pandemic, 3 moves, some minor irritations, and huge blessings.

Let's start with the blessings:

Thank God: for the ability to block people on streaming media and cell phones.

                    my family, my health, my family's health.

                    fresh vegetables. Yay! Brussel sprouts, asparagus, carrots...the list goes on.

                    the 1st hummingbird at my feeder this morning.

                    banana, date and black walnut bread straight from the oven, also today:)

                    Being able to think about my youngest son's birthday 4/17/1973 without the soul crushing                             ache of previous years. 

                    affordable calla lilies and orchids.

                    reliable transportation

                    yummy trout

                    new washer/dryer

My daughter bought me a recliner as an early Mother's Day present. It's so comfy that I've slept a few nights in it. I usually wake up with hook and yarn, or a kindle in my hands. Terrible habit. Haven't spilled any wine yet:)

I was just getting ready to book a farm-to-table vacation in Italy when the country was closed to travelers due to Covid.  Glad I didn't hit the "Confirm" button. Some of my family members contracted covid over the pandemic era of the last 3 years. Gladly all survived. Of the many tests I've had to take for work all have been negative. PTL 

I'm going to stick to the continental USA for a while. Book foodie trips. I do want to spend 3 days in NYC to see the Statute of Liberty, eat in an old deli (sans the rats) and visit a yarn shop in the Bronx.  Maybe I'll venture out of country next year. Maybe not. 

Las fall my sister and I went on a whirlwind trip to San Francisco and Lake Tahoe. It was fun. Hilton has terrible coffee. Thankfully McDonald's had Americano. Good coffee at a fraction of Starbuck's. I have the travel bug biting!

I recently bought an Ancestry DNA test for my cousin Veronica. Her sample is at the extraction phase with a May 3rd completion date. Hope it yields useful info.

My 1st ex-husband died on Mar 1 of this year. We divorced Jul 1987. A full year after he started an affair with the woman he lived with at his death. Unfortunately our children were not listed in the obituary and his death certificate states :never married". I'm going to correct that. 

My hair is very long again. I tried to French braid it like I used to but I'm not as limber as in days gone by. Half tempted to cut it short and do a pink spike-y thing. That would last about 2 days😕

Time to take the bread out of the oven and fold some laundry.

Thank you Lord for the rain and snow which has given our land a much needed drink,

Stay safe😷

Where has the time gone?

 It's been 2 years since I have wanted to blog. 

During the past 2 years I vacationed in Ireland over Easter 2019. Got a great travel deal, so off I flew to visit the Emerald Isle. Should have read up on the Easter Rising of 1916 when Ireland fought for their freedom from British rule. Lots of info on the web about it. I really would like to go back when this pandemic has run it's course.

Sadly I was unaware of the rich, rich history of that tiny island, but I learned.  Anyway, we had a very short, almost didn't happen because of a bomb scare, layover in London before continuing on to Dublin. My taxi driver was a very handsome and informative person;) He told me to watch for pick-pockets. Hmm? He wasn't the only one to tell me that. 

I asked my cousin JG if she wanted to go with me, but she couldn't. JG said to send a postcard as soon as I could. Sent her one of 2 donkeys looking over a rock fence that said "wish you were here" 😁😁 I have no problem traveling alone because I don't have to follow anyone's schedule.

While posting my cousins postcard I found out that under the PO was a museum dedicated to the Easter Rebellion of 1916. I spent 3 hours in there. Amazing place to visit. I stopped for tea and scones on my way back to my hotel. Of course I also had to stop for a sandwich and a bottle of wine to eat in the room, My room was very comfortable. The hotel gave all customers a chocolate Easter box. Yummy. Mine lasted 3 days😋 The trip included breakfast , and boy, do the Irish make good breakfast. They, of course. have yummy white blood sausage. I don't really want to know how it's made.

The Book of Kells is something everybody that visits Ireland should see. Magnificent. Of course the internet offers many more views than I was able to see standing right in front of it. I should have extended my trip to spend more time at Trinity Collège absorbing more history. 

Friday, January 15, 2021

Toxic fiefdoms

We all know what toxic means, no?

Here's the most popular Google definition:

TOP DEFINITION
Toxic is a group of people who are rude and can't be nice. They are not true to people around them. They need an attitude check. Their personalities are so unappealing it makes the people around them suffer and turn rude as well. Beware of toxics!

How about Fiefdom?
  1. the estate or domain of a feudal lord.
  2. Informalanything, as an organization or real estate, owned or controlled by one dominant person or group.

So I worked ONE month and ONE day a Wal-mart. I took the job to save money for an Ireland trip. That is the most toxic environment I've ever been in. Junior High School was a walk in the park compared to this experience.

Friday, June 8, 2018

Things that confound😒--and blessings

Things that confound😒

Has anyone out there figured out how sleeves turn inside out in the washer?
Or, how pant legs bunch up in the dryer?
Or, even, that  no matter how closely you follow the care instructions printed on the tag, your permanent press clothes must be ironed? Sometimes I want to wear wrinkly clothes to see if anyone would notice and comment😀
Why has the correct grammatical use of "a" and "an" changed?
Why do people feel threatened by intelligence?
Who is the "real CEO" at Wal-mart? ROFLMAO---more later:)

I had a list of thing that confound, but, like things that confound, I won't find the list until this blog posts.

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So, I got in a ditch of confusion regarding one of my ancestors. Had to step back and try a new tactic/way to approach the HUGE amount of info available but, that somehow didn't make sense. Hmm. Decided to watch Genealogy Roadshow and Finding Your Roots on PBS for inspiration. GR came to New Mexico and featured a Navajo woman that hadn't seen her father since she was three. Didn't know anything about his family either. Her mother did mention that he was a Code Talker but not much more. The GR researchers found this woman's aunt through DNA results. The aunt was extremely happy to meet her niece again after so many years, and confirmed that her father was indeed a Code Talker.
One of the interesting things revealed about the difficulty of tracing Native American lines is because one person can have or use many different names. ¿Que? Rewind. One person may have or use many different names. Simple explanation: "during certain ceremonies, location, or phases of life, a Native American uses an appropriate name." Talk about an eye opener. AND---things that confound?

Another nugget that nudged my info overloaded brain was that many Hispanic Jews changed last names during the Spanish Inquisition. Maybe I need to explore that line. Maybe I'll look into another person for now. I knew this and it went into overloaded memory brain bank.

The Jim Crow Law was mentioned during several of the PBS programs. For some strange reason this brought to mind my mother telling me that her parents, Grandpa Julian and Grandma Deluvina, never married. I remember asking my Gramps and he confirmed that nugget of information. But it was no big deal at the time because I wasn't actively pursuing genealogy.

Why Jim Crow you ask? I did too. Strange. Anyway I looked up Jim Crow laws by state. GASP!

Arizona had this on Wikipedia:

1864: Miscegenation [Statute] Marriages between whites with "Negroes, Indians, Mongolians" were declared illegal and void. The word "Descendants" does not appear in the statute.
1901: Miscegenation [Statute] Revision of the 1865 statute which added the word "descendants" to the list of minority groups. The revised statutes also stated that marriages would be valid if legal where they were contracted, but noted that Arizona residents could not evade the law by going to another state to perform the ceremony.
1909: Education [Statute] School district trustees were given the authority to segregate black students from white children only where there were more than eight Negro pupils in the school district. The legislature passed the law over a veto by the governor.
1911-1962: Segregation, miscegenation, voting [Statute] Passed six segregation laws: four against miscegenation and two school segregation statutes, and a voting rights statute that required electors to pass a literacy test. The state's miscegenation laws prohibited blacks as well as Indians and Asians from marrying whites, and were not repealed until 1962.
1927: Education [Statute] In areas with 25 or more black high school students, an election would be called to determine if these pupils should be segregated in separate but equal facilities.
1928: Miscegenation [State Code] Forbid marriages between persons of the Caucasian, Asian and Malay races.
1942: Miscegenation [Judicial Decision] Supreme Court of Arizona interprets anti-miscegenation statute in a manner which prohibits persons of mixed racial heritage from marrying anyone. Court acknowledges that its interpretation is "absurd" and recommends that Legislature pass amendment thereto.[4]
1956: Miscegenation [Statute] Marriage of person of "Caucasian blood with Negro, Mongolian, Malay, or Hindu" void. Native Americans were originally included in an earlier statute, but were deleted by a 1942 amendment.

New Mexico had this mention on Wikipedia:
  • "Separate rooms [shall] be provided for the teaching of pupils of African descent, and [when] said rooms are so provided, such pupils may not be admitted to the school rooms occupied and used by pupils of Caucasian or other descent."

How ABSURD!

My grandmother was more Native American than Hispanic. And was born in AZ. Is this why they never married? Who cares? The explanation died with them. My grandfather died 17 years after my Grandma and stated he didn't remarry because there was only one Deluvina in the world. They were together since 1911. My oldest aunt was born in Flagstaff AZ in 1912.

So needless to say, but I will, Jim Crow laws were started as a way to "segregate Negroes" from them poor White folk but also extended to other ethnic people. Ugh! Thank God that segregation and discrimination was outlawed by the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Does it still happen? Yes! Move on people! We all bleed red!

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Okay. On to some blessings😚

My sister bought a motorcycle! Her first 500 mile trip was to Ruidoso. Awesome! I'm so proud of her adventurous nature.

Her new grandson is sooo cute! Smiles all the time:) And long. He's going to be tall.💖

Did I ever mention that I have a "baby brother"?  👦We (brother, sister, me) found out about him on the day we left my father's cremains at Santa Fe National Cemetery. I hadn't spoken to dear ole dad since I was 14. I was 32 when he blew his head off. We were sitting in my backyard and a process server handed a Cease and Desist from my then 5 1/2 month old brother's maternal grandfather. We probably would otherwise have never known anything about him.
I had a relationship with him until I moved to Silver City in 2001. I mistakenly understood that the man his mother was going to marry would adopt my brother. I hate when that happens. Don't you? Being misinformed? Or led to believe? Genetic?
Anyway...I started to look for him when I retired and moved back home. Finally made the connection last month!
Hard to believe that he is now 34 years old and has a son of his own who is 14! So I have another nephew! He was a Christian rapper in Albuquerque for a season of his life. He gave me a CD. Sounds pretty good.
This was definitely a blessing. We've had dinner a couple of times. I told him what little I could about our father and showed him my ancestry family tree. We're also having his saliva cooked by Ancestry and 23andme. So should have results soon. Making tracing dad's family somewhat easier..

I started working part-time as a cashier at Wal-mart. Will hopefully save enough money for an Ireland trip next year. God willing. Working some crazy hours. And as in all lines of jobs, there are some unbelievable characters.👶👶👶 Maybe I'll blog about these interesting ones next time.Have to remember Titus 3:10 and Ephesians 6:11

Thank You Lord for the much needed rain. You are so good to me.

And how has your day been?

Be blessed

Monday, April 2, 2018

Whoa!! Thank all the clinical people!

So....I finished, and received the certificate for medical billing and coding. Did NOT pass the cert test in Nov and had to drive to Roswell for retake on 12/16.
On the drive down all I could think about doing was blogging about our wondrously vast and beautiful state of New Mexico. God is good, no?

I knew after the first test that I really did not want to sit and pour over a Dr's, NP's or PA's note and decide how to code it. Having stood on the other side of the bed so to speak, it's just not that easy. Clinicians don't really pay attention to the cost of providing care, only that they do it because most of them are damn good at it. Thank God! Where would we be if that were not so? I'm not saying that all clinicians excel at giving good care to patients. Some should probably find some other way to make a living, no?

I can only express what has become an indelible part of my life. Things I can never un-see. Emotions I hope to never experience again. There were some very high highs. And some very emotional and psyche crushing lows. I loved what I did and still went back for more. 37+ years.There are things I wish I'd never seen or knew about man's inhumanity to man, children that stared at me with that, "Help me" look, suicides, traumas. 12 year-olds having heart attacks because their friends told them "it's okay, take this pill", CODE blue, CODE  red, anaphylactic shock, disease and the litany of other illnesses. Outstanding caregivers, and, shitty care providers making excuses to either peers or patients fully expecting to be exonerated. How could I possibly code all that and more for billing? God bless the people that bring the money in, Billers and Coders, because without them no one would get paid. It all comes down to the money.
All that being said...I'm not going down the medical road just yet.

But back to our beautiful state. The drive through Tijeras Canyon is exhilarating whether heading East or West. The plains and rolling hills of the eastern side contrast is spectacular. I personally prefer the mountains and high desert areas. You never know what you'll see over the next swell of land. I saw antelope,  sheep, llamas, mustangs, cows,  2 BIG bulls sizing each other up, badger, birds, a couple of snakes, scrub oak, mesquite trees, a lone cottonwood tree that usually means water, ghost towns, and, sunshine unmarred by city pollution. The stars at night. What can match seeing the stars where there is no man made light pollution? I am in awe of the Lord's creation. Makes me humble😊
I really need to get back to visiting places my ancestors  moved to. Wish me luck.
Driving back through Vaughn there was a wreck. Tourist car vs ranch truck. You know how that turned out. The speed limit signs are very easy to see. So what's the hurry through a small town whose thoroughfare is maybe 1 (ONE) mile long?

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Aah...Espaṅa

So I finally fulfilled my dream of visiting Spain. Went by myself because I just could not pass up a RT airfare, hotel with one meal included for less than 2k. Madrid was spectacular. I walked as much of the city as I could. The Plaza Mayor was only 4 blocks from my hotel. Impressive statue of King Felipe III. The palace was closed cause they were setting up for a fiesta. Pero siempre hay una fiesta todos los días en algún lugar de la ciudad "But there is always a fiesta everyday somewhere in the city", I was told. So on to the Reyna Sofỉa Museo about 2 miles away. Decided to walk-all downhill. The strangest thing: while I was strolling and taking pictures of the architecture, I started noticing the graffiti on everything. What!?!? So I started taking pictures of the grafffiti and before I knew it---I had walked about  a mile past the museo. Hmm. Met some interesting people and also learned that all the yellow vested men standing outside shops were not only security, but great for giving directions. It really wasn't tourist season so I didn't encounter that 'oh eres turista' look. Speaking Spanish helps too:) Do NOT go to Madrid during Valentine's Day unless you're into that holiday. I was heading out to watch flamenco when all the lovey-dovey thing started. I've never been much for the hallmark version so back to my hotel I went.

Barcelona😀 I would definitely go back to Barcelona. The people are so friendly. My first day there I bought a bus tour ticket to see which site I would return to visit. I got on the metro to get to the tour bus stop and started talking with a lady. Before we both knew, we were at the end of the line😊😊 Decided to walk the barrios instead. That's what this trip was about. Getting to know the country before. or, if I ever need to return, que no?  I walked around neighborhoods talking with shop owners and  people on the street.  Long story short, the ticket was not used. Hardly any graffiti anywhere.
After visiting one area, I would pick another and happily passed the days eating fruit that actually tasted like the fruit I ate as a child. And tapas!! Yummy. Tapas, another word for appetizer of the day.
On my last day in Barcelona I was craving a hamburger. But..I was not going to pay 14.95€ for an American hamburger. So I went to McDonald's. Wow!! The McD's are like the new age internet coffee shops with 'puter plugs at almost every seat. You order on a touch screen about the size of a 50" tv, in a multitude of languages, pick if you prefer to pay with your card or at the counter, and get nudged to buy dessert with your meal. Dessert option was given three times by the screen and twice by the counter person. Nope. Better another cupa.
One of the shop owners asked if I was from one of the border towns by Portugal. No. Why? Because you use very old Spanish words and she thought it was a blend of Spanish and Portuguese. Hmm. Don't know maybe? She also told me I have a Spanish accent. It's amusing to be told you have a Spanish accent by a Spaniard in Spain.

Do I have a Spanish accent?

The coffee in Spain is so, so, so delicious that my tongue turned black from the quantity I consumed. Had to buy more toothpaste to brush my tongue. You can either pick espresso size(tiny), cafe largo(about 8 oz) or cafe Americano(mug size). one of each, please:) The chocolate drink there is not like the wimpy cocoa drinks here. I ordered one the first chilly morning and it was like trying to drink hot fudge. Rich, rich, rich. Delicious but no more for me. Better another cupa, no?

On the plane ride to Madrid I met a young French man who is a wine buyer for Four Seasons. Told me he was born in Paris and came to the USA to work for Disney as a wine buyer. Fell in love and lives in the USA. He was actually going to a small town in Portugal. According to him, wine that has been held back several years, both in Portugal and Spain, because of the price drops, is now becoming available. He taught me a few things about wine and encouraged me to visit Paris. We laughed because he tried to teach me the nasal tones of some French words that I failed at miserably. Paris? Not on my bucket list.

On my way back I met a woman from Brazil. She had been in Portugal to visit family. We met in the Barcelona airport. Amazing place by the way. Then again in Amsterdam airport and quite a nice visit. and some laughs about the language barriers. She also stated that she had a little trouble with Portuguese spoken on this side of the world We muddled through:) I didn't know that Portuguese is the language spoken in Brazil.

The plane ride on KLM from Amsterdam to LAX was an okay experience. My knees were firmly pressed up against the seat in front of me. Southwest seats are recliners compared to those. And the plane was full. My seat neighbor was a pastor from the Ukraine going to San Diego for a conference and to visit family. This guy was about 6 ft and 300 lbs. Snug. Very pleasant, but... I must say that he did ask me if I am a Christian. "Catholic?" No. "Gutte" So we passed some time talking about God, his church and family.

On my layover in LAX I met a young man from Chicago. He is a programmer and we talked about some of the leaps in AI.  One of his duties is to write fail safes for these programs. I don't know if fail safes can keep up with the speed of AI. Or, hackers. Terminator?

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Just before I left Karen Morelock, an RT who was a student with me in 1975, passed away. We worked together at Pres. her family had dubbed her Sister Karen because she would not bad-mouth anyone, ever. She was a gentle soul. Her services were held the morning after I left. I sent my deepest condolences to her family.

Last month John Sheffer, another RT and friend that I worked with in RT and cath lab also passed away. His obituary said he had a "wicked sense of humor." That he did. He was a prankster who would pull in other department personnel to accomplish some of his more elaborate pranks.

These are 2 of the people that God put in my life at the beginning of our shared careers. They, along with others, made learning and working fun.

May God bless their souls. They are Home.

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Had another DNA test done through 23andMe. In depth results are eye opening in the world of genealogy.

I'm meeting another family member from the Jemez area.

Back to work;)

And how has your life been?


Monday, October 2, 2017

CONSENSUS II


Wow! It's been 10 months since my last blog. Life is busy. I like being busy.

Still down sizing stuff. You know the old adage: if it has no value than to collect dust just give it away.

Elaine and I have made huge discoveries on our ancestors. I also joined LAS VILLAS DEL NORTE, a group started by Moises Garza in Texas. Another eye-opener. More later.
I finished and passed Spanish II. Spanish class is a good place to meet people that have traveled all over Europe and also have great tips. I'm still hoping to go in about a year, thinking transatlantic cruise to Spain or Portugal, stay one month, and cruise back to the good ole USA. Bought a bottle of  table wine made in Portugal. It's 19.5 proof! Yikes! Only sips for sure.

Dropped Navajo after 3 classes. It's definitely is an immersion type of thing. I was still trying to "get a grasp" around the punctuation. Maybe next year.

`So after I finished Spanish class my TV died. Yep. Deader than a useless circuit board. Took it to the dump. Was looking at all kinds of boob tubes. What a pain! Then remembered Amazon's Prime Day was coming up. So I started looking at TVs on Amazon. Found a FIRE 4k UHD at a price way out of my league. But.....since Prime Day was coming up I was able to buy it at a price more in line with my budget..

Then I got a wild hair and decided to take another class. But one with  "some meat". So I registered for Medical and Billing classes. Whew!Just started my fourth class, and final will be  in mid-Oct. First class started mid-May and ran though June 15. The national certification in Nov. I should do okay and ,if not, I get a redo at no cost.

Silly me. On the evening after my first final. I booked the only non-stop flight to Sacramento leaving Albuquerque at 6:00 AM. Missed my flight but was able to get a seat on the 8:30 one. Only one hour layover in Las Vegas. But had a great and exhausting visit with my cousins. Love those CA peoples:)💝

My goal, (did someone say GOAL?) is to get a job, save for about a year and spend a month in Spain and Portugal. God willing. At this point there might not even be a world in a year. Keep praying for cooler heads to prevail.

Is it me? Or does anyone like being addressed as "dear" over the phone? At least in person you can give a person the stink eye. Or at the very least pat them on the arm and say something like "It's okay sweetie"😉

Thank You Lord for the much needed rain in NM. Praying for all those affected by natural disasters.

Next: The Murderer among Us

Sunday, September 17, 2017

Consensus

Noun1.consensus - agreement in the judgment or opinion reached by a group as a whole; "the lack of consensusreflected differences in theoretical positions"; "those rights and obligations are based on an unstated consensus"
accordagreement - harmony of people's opinions or actions or characters; "the two parties were in 
agreement"
Based on WordNet 3.0, Farlex clipart collection. © 2003-2012 Princeton University, Farlex Inc.

Wow!! It has been a long and grueling time in our history as a nation. More specifically with the president elect of the United States of America. There appears to be very little in the way of 'consensus', no?
Citizen turned against citizen for a mere matter of who some of us chose to vote 'against' instead of 'for'. Talk about hate speech. Riots, violent demonstrations reminiscent of how Hitler slowly but surely spread nazism across Germany and surrounding countries! But not so slowly once the "ball was rolling" . What next?!  I would like to think that our citizenry is way too smart to be caught up in this kind of narrow mindedness. Where are the critical thinking caps?!
Yes, I voted for Trump and against H(K)illary. Voting for him does not mean I am for Putin. Talk about a quantum leap. Assumptions to say the least. GIVE IT A REST PEOPLE! We are in far greater risk of attack from terrorists and need to focus ourselves on protecting our nation instead of causing more turmoil within.
While thinking about all the 
That being said...... and after the vocabulary words I had to relearn to state my opinion,  I love blogging😁

I am taking Spanish II and Basic Navajo offered by UNM's continued education off campus. Ironically at Garfield junior high school where I was a student a looooonnng time ago. Welcome back Kotter. 
Was going through the first 4 chapters of the Spanish text Dos Mundos and was more than a little surprised at how much I've forgot. As a teenager I took Spanish I, II and III at Garfield and Valley High as easy credits. Now.....not so easy. I'm going to have to join groups for both classes in order to practice language skills. There goes my social life😉 Or, maybe that will be my social life, More on that later. I am looking forward to the challenge.